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How to Deal With Negative Thoughts

Everyone has negative thoughts. They're not always true, and you can learn to question them.

The ideas

  1. A thought is not a fact.
  2. Naming a thought can reduce its power.
  3. Talking to yourself like a friend helps.

For example

'I'm terrible at this' can become 'I'm finding this hard right now, and I can ask for help.'

Try this

  • Write the thought down.
  • Ask: what would I say to a friend who thought this?
  • Rewrite it in a fairer, kinder way.

Reflect: What would a kind friend say about your situation?

Speak about it

Speaking challenge

Pick the one idea from this list that matters most to you. Explain why in 45 seconds.

0:45

Say it out loud. Nobody is listening — that’s the point. Mistakes are allowed.

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